Nikah — the marriage contract
Counselling, preparation and the ceremony
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً
“And among His signs is that He created for you partners from among yourselves, so that you may find rest in them, and He placed affection and mercy between you.”
Sūrat ar-Rūm 30:21
In Islam marriage is not a sacrament but a covenant: concluded with the express consent of both, before two witnesses, with a bridal gift that belongs to the wife alone. Before we conclude the contract we talk with the couple about what will carry that covenant later — what each expects of the other, duties, money, the two families.
The ceremony itself is short: an address, the offer and its acceptance, the witnesses’ confirmation, the signature. Those who wish may celebrate with us afterwards.
يَا مَعْشَرَ الشَّبَابِ، مَنِ اسْتَطَاعَ مِنْكُمُ الْبَاءَةَ فَلْيَتَزَوَّجْ
“O young people! Whoever among you can afford it, let him marry.”
al-Bukhārī 5065 · Muslim 1400
An Islamic marriage does not replace a civil one — under German law it has no effect, neither for inheritance nor pensions nor residence status. We advise every couple to have both.